MISSING YOU


Have you ever love somebody so much, it makes you cry
Have you ever needed someone so bad, you can’t sleep at night
Have you try to find the words but they don’t come around
Have you ever? Have you ever?
-Brandy, Have You Ever-


I had a nagging thought about someone last night which made me sleepless. This morning, a friend sent me an e-mail which described the whispers of my heart (well.. almost), which I couldn’t find the words, no matter how hard I tried.

Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because you think that he doesn't miss you? Almost everyone has.

Missing someone is terrible but at the same time, a sweet feeling.

You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him.

Thinking if he ever cares about you.

Rushing to the phone once it rings, hoping that it's him.

Looking out of the window hoping that he will surprise you by appearing downstairs.

Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him missing the final episode of your favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time you went out together.

Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, and future.

Logging on to the Internet hoping to see him online. When you realise that he isn't online and did not return your page, you will start worrying if he is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up I guess.

It exposes you to loneliness.

It teaches you how to cope with being lonely and let you know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.

You know that you really care and you indulge in the feeling of loving/ caring for him.

But missing someone and not knowing if he is feeling the same is terrible.

You feel as if you are being left alone.

So if you miss someone, tell him and let him know.

At the same time, ask if he misses you.

Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoid.

If you are the one being missed and you know it, let the other party know.

If you miss him too, tell him.

Don't let him wait.

I miss you oh-so-much.

Other jiwang posts:-

Solitude
No Man's An Island
Love of a Lifetime
Crossroads

Comments

Backup comments said…
I know how it feels. and I hate it.
yuin | Homepage | 11.08.05 – 1:07 am | #

I hope you will tell the person you’re missing that you miss him
toxic | 11.08.05 – 2:37 am | #

euw jiwangkarat
Sharizal Sharaani | Homepage | 11.08.05 – 8:15 am | #

Very soulful writing … ever thought of putting them into lyrics and making songs out of them? You could think about making them into One Hit Wonders ….. afterall, the “feel” is real and it connects …
Ee Reen | 11.08.05 – 2:57 pm | #

Yuin: I hardly have words to describe this.

Toxic: He knows. He knows all along.

Sharizal: Dah keluar hospital??

Ee Reen: You are not going to talk me into forming a band with you, are ya? Ha ha.
Gina | Homepage | 11.09.05 – 12:35 am | #

yes i agree with Ee Reen

lets make some real cash from our feeling via some income generating activities

missing someone is so freaking real and scary but on the other side….if its not there…its just not there anymore…

The art of letting go….

peace
e
Ed | 11.09.05 – 9:44 am | #
Backup comments said…
were you missing me?

hey, aren’t we suppose to meet up with Ed for yum cha?
Kitjar Sukjaidee | Homepage | 11.09.05 – 4:50 pm | #

your photography techniques are excellent…tabik
VJ | 11.09.05 – 7:30 pm | #

Ed: Yes, letting go is hard to do. It just takes time.

Kit: All you want is Ed. And since you already have his number, you can both go out by all means. Don’t need me to the the mediator. *Jealous*

VJ: ish!! This pic is not taken by me lah. Think I so clever meh?? Ha ha. It was stolen off the internet from somewhere.
Gina | Homepage | 11.09.05 – 11:15 pm | #

Hey,

So unfair ler! All I want is a nice chat with Ms Gingerly Yours, and ahem, of course plus Ed ler…. hee hee!
Kitjar Sukjaidee | Homepage | 11.10.05 – 5:23 am | #

hey gina,

may the person you’re missing am doing the same indeed.

all the best!
greenapple | 11.10.05 – 12:08 pm | #

What about missing someone that you can no longer tell as that person is already missing someone else which use to miss you.. It is not really a stable element between uranium 235 & 238..
Tan Kien Boon | 11.10.05 – 2:58 pm | #

Kit: Enough said. I won’t fall for your trick. :P

Emma: He knew, but he chose not to do anything about it.

TKB: I need an answer to that as well.
Gina | Homepage | 11.10.05 – 11:07 pm | #

who is he?
keatix | Homepage | 11.11.05 – 5:44 am | #

Keatix: He is in Lyon now. He he. *Wink*
Gina | Homepage | 11.11.05 – 9:21 pm | #

hey, dont BS lar, who is he?
keatix | Homepage | 11.14.05 – 2:53 pm | #

I’ll whisper to you… Come closer.. come closer..
Gina | Homepage | 11.14.05 – 8:21 pm | #

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